It’s completely normal to sometimes find sermons confusing or hard to follow. Many people, regardless of their background or abilities, have this experience. Remember, it’s okay not to understand everything, and there are ways to still benefit from and engage with the sermon.
It’s Normal to Feel Confused Sometimes
Remember these important points:
- Everyone gets confused at times during sermons
- It’s okay to not understand everything
- Your worth isn’t based on how much you understand
Focus on What You Can Understand
Here are some strategies to help you engage:
1. Listen for Key Words or Phrases
- Pay attention to words that are repeated
- Notice phrases that stand out to you
- Think about how these words make you feel
2. Look for the Main Message
- Try to find one main idea in the sermon
- Ask yourself: “What is the pastor trying to tell us about God or life?”
- Focus on understanding this one key point
3. Connect with Your Feelings
- Notice how the sermon makes you feel
- Think about why you feel that way
- These feelings can be a way of understanding too
What to Do During the Sermon
Try these tips during the sermon:
- Take notes of parts you do understand
- Draw pictures that represent what you’re hearing
- Write down questions you have for later
After the Sermon
Here are some things you can do after the service:
- Talk to a friend about what they understood
- Ask the pastor for a simpler explanation
- Look up Bible verses mentioned in the sermon
Remember: It’s About Your Relationship with God
The Bible says:
“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.” (James 4:8)
- God cares more about your heart than your understanding
- Your effort to listen and learn is valuable to God
A Prayer for Understanding
Here’s a simple prayer you can use:
“Dear God, sometimes I don’t understand everything in church. Please help me to learn what you want me to know. Thank you for loving me, even when I’m confused. Amen.”
Practical Tips for Better Understanding
Try these ideas to help you understand more:
- Sit closer to the front if it helps you focus
- Use a simpler Bible translation during the sermon
- Listen to recordings of the sermon later to review
It’s Okay to Ask for Help
Don’t be afraid to seek support:
- Tell your church leaders if you’re struggling to understand
- Ask if there are study groups that break down the sermons
- See if someone can be your “sermon buddy” to discuss with
Finding Meaning in Other Ways
Remember, sermons aren’t the only way to learn about God:
- Participate in other church activities
- Read or listen to Bible stories
- Enjoy worship music and think about the lyrics
You Are Valued in Your Church
Always remember:
- Your presence is important, even if you don’t understand everything
- God loves you just as you are
- Your desire to learn is precious to God and your church family
Not understanding everything in a sermon doesn’t mean you’re failing or that you don’t belong. God and your church value your presence and your effort. Focus on what you do understand, engage in ways that work for you, and don’t hesitate to ask for help. Your journey of faith is personal and unique, and every small step of understanding is a victory to celebrate.